Now I would like to recollect some words from a movie I watched long ago. It’s from "Shall We Dance",—-I am not sure for the name almost escape me, about the opinion of a wife who suspected his husband was involved in affairs. She invited a detective to spy her husband, but at length she found it immoral to do so. Then she met the detective she employed to end the survey as she observed,
We need someone to witness our lives. In marriage you are promising taking care about everything,the good things, bad things, terrible things, all of it , all the time, everyday. You are saying, your life would not be unnoticed, because I would notice it. Your life would not be going without witness, because I will be your witness.
As far as I see it, those words shows a partner in life is to be attentive to everything in any time of your life. In some aspects, this will be true.As a social being, I believe we all want to be proved useful to the society and we once live in the world in the long history of human. So we need a witness. However. our early years are witnessed by our parents, and later years witnessed by our partner in most occasions. In addition, we are not only live to find a witness, but also do something that worths.
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